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Every time we withhold our real identities from those we interact with, it is an act of self-censorship. I've told myself it's important that I protect myself by being "discreet" but I've come to believe that no matter the "reason," it's also an act of diminishment and often shame that is internalized.

Being myself no matter where, when and who has been an amazing source of validation and empowerment, a gift I can give myself, both presently and in the future.

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I love this journey from internal shame to validation and empowerment, Shayne, thank you for sharing! Freedom to be yourself can be amazingly powerful.

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I'm glad your client's response was affirming and positive. It’s a reminder that when we step into our whole selves, we gain personal freedom and strengthen the relationships around us.

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That's a beautiful way of putting it - coming out can strengthen our relationships by building trust. Thanks for reading and commenting!

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Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion is a humane policy.

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I agree. I think DEI is crucial for healthy organizations. Thanks for reading and for your comment!

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